Create A Healthier Relationship & Happier Life!
Research proves that irrespective of class, status, material success or intellect, the quality of connection (love and belonging) we share with other human beings has a direct correlation to our ongoing happiness.
The reverse is also true, i.e. irrespective of other circumstances in our lives a lack of connection will almost certainly lead to unhappiness and a lack of fulfilment.
This is why our primary relationships are so critical to the overall quality of our lives.
After the honeymoon period, relationships become difficult at the best of times and just like anything else in life, unless we actually invest in them, we can find ourselves really struggling to connect with the person we once fell in love with.
But it doesn't have to be this way
Over the years we have worked with a large number of couples to help them better connect - to feel more love, more belonging, more intimacy, more trust, more respect and more more!
We work differently to your average neighbourhood marriage counsellor in that we always insist on working each of the parties individually first, for at least one session.
The underlying principle being: 'if I don't understand and take responsibility for my own thoughts and emotions that undoubtedly affect the quality of our relationship, how can I expect you to do the same back?'
Get My Ship In Order First
Indeed, it is usually the case that one of the parties own stuff is having a serious impact on the relationship and that by resolving this first, the relationship will immediately have a better chance of prospering.
One of the parties resolving issues such as perfectionism, addiction, anger, codependency, or jealousy might feel uncomfortable, but it often the fastest route to affecting change in the relationship.
This 121 work ahead of time often ensures a significantly better outcome and sometimes there is no need for any three way discussion because the relationship issue is already solved.
That said, the three way discussion is always very helpful in agreeing boundaries and to better communicate.
If Not Now, When?
We always feel very honoured to be asked to help a couple improve their relationship and we are always very sensitive to the dynamics involved.
That said, with a combined 35 years of therapy, we have the skills, knowledge and insights to help you help yourselves better connect now.
But don't take our word for it - perhaps read some reviews from Trustpilot - this will give you a much better sense of who we are, what we do and all importantly, the results we consistently help our clients achieve.
If you would like some help to improve your relationship, call 020 7485 5745 or hit the button below and fill out our quick enquiry form - it would be a pleasure to hear from you.